TOP 5 HABITS OF HIGHLY SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE

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Socrates was one of the wisest human in the world

once a man came to him and said

"PLEASE TELL ME THE MOST IMPORTANT THING WHICH WE NEEDED FOR SUCCESS."

Listening to him Socrate Remained silent for some time

and then he took that man to the river

when both of them reached the river, then socrates put the man's mouth inside the water

with full force he kept that man's mouth inside water

when that man started struggling to breathe,  then socrates pulled that man's face out from the water

after leaving from water, that man become very angry

and told socrates what the hell you were doing, i came here to learn not to die

for this socrates replied, i wasn't taking your life, i was actually teaching you the thing which is really

important for success, socrates further said, that when you were inside water, air was the most important

thing for you, that's why you put all your efforts to breathe

similarly, when you think of getting success as important as breathing, and put all your efforts to get that success

the way you were putting efforts now, then you will for sure get success

winners don't do something different, they just do same thing differently

and most of the people fail to do so

this different way is the biggest difference which shiv khera is teaching us through his book

He says that winner has some special traits and some special qualities

which help them to win the game of life

and if you want to become a winner and want to be successful then you must

develop winner habits and qualities in you

today i will share those winner qualities with you

Quality no. 1 ATTITUDE

When Hitler's Army was surrounded by enemies all around

then hitler's army one soldier got panicked and came to him and said that we are in trouble

we are surrounded by enemies from all sides

listening to that soldier, Hitler said, this is not trouble instead it's an opportunity now we can attack

our enemies in any directions and can kill them

this is a winner attitude, i know that Hitler wasn't a good person

But it was Hitler's attitude which made million of people his admirer

he has such an influence that people used to follow him and his words

As per Harvard research, 85 percent reasons of people getting promotion in their job is their Attitude

and only 15 percent job promotions are given on the basis of their knowledge and intelligence

Your attitude decides how you will handle any situation in future

people who have positive thinking and positive attitude has shown at all times that

they can handle situation more properly and nicely and

that positive attitude has helped them to move ahead in life easily

another example you must have heard  David and Goliath story

David was a normal body size person who was about to face fight with giant Goliath

at that time people told David that don't be mad, Goliath is too big to be hit with your slingshot

to this David said "NO, He is too big to be miss."

Big body means more chances of me hitting him with slingshot from far distance

with this attitude he defeated that giant

means different results were seen against the same man with different attitude

hence always be a positive attitude person, who always see glass as half full not as half empty

Quality no.2 OPPORTUNITY GRABBER

There was a very religious person

one day storm hits his village, when flow of water increases

people of that village starts evacuating that village, and even asked that religious man to leave with them

but that man refuses to go and says that i have faith in god, if he finds me in danger he will save me

and ask those village people to leave

Flow of water increases more hence group of people in car come to that religious man to save him

but still he refuses to go, flow of water increases so much that people on motorboat come to save him

but still he refuses to go, and says that god will help him so you people go

water level goes so high that people come with helicopter to save him, but still he refuses to go

and finally as a result he gets drowned and dies

After Death, when he goes in front of the God, He asked to God in Anger

"He says that i believed in you, i had faith in you, why didn't you save my life? why didn't you come

save me?  to thiS GOD Replied, SON I SENT YOU A WARNING, I SENT YOU A CAR, I SENT YOU A

MOTORBOAT, I SENT YOU A HELICOPTER, WHAT MORE YOU WERE LOOKING FOR?

Similar thing happens with us, many times opportunities stays in front of us

but instead of taking action and grabbing that opportunity we let it go

and this behaviour is what makes human a loser

Quality No. 3 Success

Forbes magazine founder says that history has always shown us

that usually life winners faces many problems and difficulties at start

even after facing problems still winners win because they never fear to fail again and again

example, there was a man who failed in his business at the age of 21

at the age of 22 he failed miserably in elections

at the age of 24 he again started a new business and he again failed in that business

at the age of 26 his Fiance died

at the age of 27 he went through nervous breakdown

at the age of 34 he again failed in elections

till the age 50 he lost many real life battles

but still he didn't give up, and at the end he faced success at the age of 52

he became the President of America

He is considered as one of the best American President

and even you must have heard his name, Yes i am Talking about Abraham Lincoln

Maybe till his 50 many people were considering him as a failure

But he never accepted failure, he never accepted himself as a failure

he always tried, and that trying made him such a huge winner that still world admires him remembers him

similarly, even you must be ready for success

you can walk on the path of success just like winners

if you can fight with the 4 obstacles, and those obstacles are:

first obstacle is Fear

Fear is the biggest obstacle which doesn't allow a person to move forward in life

fear becomes the reason for lack of confidence and also encourages procrastination

living under fear is like living under prison

Author says Fear is usually FALSE EVIDENCE APPEARING REAL WHICH MEANS

False thing that stops us from success

second obstacle LACK OF MOTIVATION

There were two friends, one was an alcoholic and a huge failure and other friend was successful and a winner

when first friend was asked the reason behind his failure, to which he said, then since childhood

he has seen lot of problems at his home, and his father was also alcoholic and use to create lot of

problems at home and our financial condition was very bad

hence i didn't able to do anything good in my life and end up being like my father

on the other side when success reason was asked to another friend, to which he said

since childhood we had lot of problems at home, we were poor and my father was an alcoholic

and used to create lot of problems at home

since then i had decided that i will never be like my father, and that decision motivated me

and has changed everything in my life

here the thing is, losers usually see their problems as an excuse

for losers problems are big excuses for them and with that excuse they don't do anything great in their life

whereas winners make their problems as a motivation source and that source allow them to move forward

motivation is a key to success, motivation is like a key which helps you to start your action( car)

There are two types of motivation, first internal and second is external

external motivation comes from outer source such as from money, fame or fear

whereas internal motivation comes from inside such as from pride, from success feeling

from responsibility and believes

Third obstacle is Low self-esteem

what we think about our selves is really very important

because if you think about yourself that you can't do much in your life

then yes it will become true

but if you think that you can do a lot of great things in your life

then even this will be true, as it says whether you say you can or you say you can;t both ways you are right

hence always have a high self-esteem, there are some differences which you can see

between high self-esteem and low self-esteem people

high self-esteem people talk about ideas

high self-esteem people are usually caring, they think about others, they discuss ideas with others

they don't argue they are usually givers

whereas low self-esteem people talk about people instead of ideas, they gossip

they don't think about others they usually judge others for everything

they never take advise they always argue with others

they are usually of takers mentality

Fourth obstacle Ego

for some people their pride is everything

usually pride never allow them to learn anything new

pride never allow them to respect others and never allow them to move ahead in life

usually winners have healthy pride, which they get after achieving something huge in life

but still winners stay down to earth with humility and always stay open towards learning from others

Quality No.4 GOAL SETTING

A man stops an old man and asked him About the road, he ask him where exactly that road go?

listening to him that old man ask that young man where exactly he wants to go?

to this that young man replies i have no idea, actually i don't know

listening to him that old man replies, Then take any road, go any where, nothing matters much

most of the people has same problem, they have no idea what exactly they want, what exactly they want to do

most people have no idea about their goals, hence this thing never allow them to become a winner

goals are those dreams to which you give deadlines and make them real by giving proper plan

and by taking proper actions, hence prepare a definite plan just like winners

and read that plan twice a day, author says that your goals should be smart

means it should be SPECIFIC MEASURABLE ACHIEVABLE REAL AND TIME BOUNDED

If you want to understand about goal setting in more detail then do watch my goal setting video

on youtube named as 5 steps to change your life

you can watch that video through description link or by clicking on the i button which appears on screen

in order to complete any goal you have to learn any new skill

and in order to learn new skill you must follow 4 stages and you must know those 4 stages

First stage is known as unconscious incompetence

example: when i had no idea about bikes, at that time was not even sure whether il able to ride a bike or not

means i was unconscious about it and i didn't even had bike riding skill at that time

means at that time i was incompetent

when i bought a bike and started riding it at that time i realised that i don't know how to ride a bike

means by this realisation i reached to the second stage known as Conscious incompetence

i consciously started realising that i don't have bike riding skill

by regular riding practice i reached to the third stage known as Conscious competence

where i started realising that yes i am learning it and my bike riding skill is improving

by regular bike riding, i reached to fourth stage known as unconscious competence

in this stage i was so great in my bike riding skill that i don't have to think consciously while riding a bike

i don't have to think when i have to change gear, when i have to give less or more gears etc

similarly while learning any skill your aim should be to reach 4th stage as quick as possible

but still you will not be successful after doing all this if you don't have winners 5th quality

and fifth quality is VISION

you will not have a big vision until and unless you don't dream big

We should not skimp in dreaming, always remember

the mobile and laptop you are using in order to see my video,

once having mobile phones and laptops was also an unbelievable dream for many

and fulfilling dream of cellphones and laptops seemed impossible at one time by many poeple

but few people didn't give up, they stayed focused towards their dream and vision

and finally they convert their dream into reality

similarly even you must dream big, you must have big vision you must be persistent

and should convert your dream into reality

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